If you're being honest...

Subject: If you’re being honest…

Hey, it’s Ramon

I was on a coaching call yesterday and I asked my client the million dollar question...

“If you had unlimited wishes and there were no limitations, what life would you create for yourself?

She was stumped.

This is common for some people… especially women that care deeply about the people around them.

“I’d want my Dad to be ok and I’d want for my family to be healthy and happy.”

She didn’t mention anything for herself.

So I said, “What about you? Are you just on cloud 9 all the time?  Or is there anything YOU would like?”

She started crying.

I sat with her… there were no words needed in that moment.

“Well… it’s just… I don’t know… I want to wait for my family to be ok first.”

With every ounce of compassion in my body, I said..

“You’re probably gonna hang up on me after I say this… but you’ve got this all backwards.”

“Huh?”

I said, “You can’t give anyone something you don’t have… 

…so if you wait for everyone else to feel good before you let yourself feel good, you’ll be waiting a long time.”

“That makes perfect sense.” She said.

See, the thing she'd been calling love, was a belief she was convinced was true.

“My family has to be ok before I can be ok.”

This is a subconscious program, in the wild… (*spoken with my best Australian accent).

I’ve had to chuck out loads of em...  “I’m not worthy was a BIG one.”  I really struggled with that one for a long time.

Here's why I'm telling you this.

You probably have a subconscious belief or two holding you back.  You might have a truckload.

And you've carried them so long you’ve just accepted “That’s the way it is.”

These beliefs sound like:

"I'll be happy when _________”

“Wanting more is selfish."

Or “If I’m too visible, I’ll be rejected.”

Your beliefs create your thoughts… which dictate your emotions, actions… and ultimately… your energy.

And your energy is what is creating your experience on this planet.

If I could give you one piece of advice it would be this:

Get curious about what you believe is true.

We’ve only got a certain number of days in this lifetime… the sooner we let go of the things that are holding us back… the sooner we can get on to the fun stuff.

Talk soon,

Ramon

P.S. If you want my support with this, you can join the Inner Circle.

When you do, you get the 30 Day Subconscious Reset… which is the fastest path I know of to rewiring your subconscious mind.

Check it out here.

P.P.S. Dulce, my Schnoodle is in a full throated howl… She’s crazy and I love her. Gonna go walk her now. Wish me luck