Seeing the forest from the trees

Hey, it’s Ramon

When I was 25 and first got to LA, I joined a small mastermind because I wanted to “level up” in all areas of my life.

That wasn’t gonna take much… because I was single, broke and out of shape. lol

There were 4 of us, and each one of us had different super powers.

One was a zen master who knew Kung Fu. (He’s training the Green Berets now).

Another was an NLP master practitioner who could sell a ketchup popsicle to a woman in white gloves.

And the 4th was a fitness model who had women throwing themselves at him on a nightly basis (he was a bartender at the time).

My “super power” back then was my obsession with realty creation, the laws behind it, and how to actually do it.

Every time we met, each one of us would sit in the “hot seat” for 15 minutes.

We’d talk about our problems, and everyone would chime in.

My first time in the hot seat I talked about how I had just broken up with the girl I thought I was going to marry.

The guys had all been through heartbreak. 

The NLP guy taught me a few things about HOW to talk to girls. 

The Zen Kung Fu guy taught me how to stay centered. 

And the male model… well that bastard just kinda smiled and said… “There’s a lot of women out there, Ramon”.

(Actually, he’s a super cool guy… and he taught me how to be more confident around women).

What I noticed as the weeks went on, though… was that everything we talked about came back to our subconscious programming.

If you didn’t know, most of who you are gets programmed before you’re 7 years old.

And then most people spend the rest of their lives thinking, feeling, and behaving the way they learned to as a kid.

And that’s great, if you had a perfect childhood… but 99% of people are carrying around a whole lotta baggage that is holding them back.

And they wonder why they don’t earn the money they’d like…

Or why they can’t seem to meet the right people…

Or why they don’t believe in themselves enough to do what would truly bring them joy.

During that 2 year span, I’d say 50% of our masterminds revolved around the subconscious mind…

And the thing that was most helpful for me, was the perspective the other guys gave me.

They helped me see the forest from the trees.

And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

Even to the guy who got all the girls (and still looks like Fabio) lol.

If you’re struggling in any area of life… there are two things that will help a bunch.

1. Figure out the subconscious beliefs that are holding you back (and let them go).

2. Get a community of people who are doing the same work as you, and meet with them regularly.

Those two things will impact your future more positively than just about anything.

Talk soon,

Ramon

P.S.  If you want help identifying your subconscious beliefs holding you back, you can join the Inner Circle. 

You get access to the 30 Day Subconscious Reset… and get an amazing community of people doing the same work as you.